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Those High Heels And Flip-Flips Are A Pain In The Back!

in Lifestyle on 07/08/16

Does this sound familiar?

You leave the house at the crack of dawn, drop the kids off at school, dash to the office, power through your work day…running from meeting to meeting.  Fight traffic on the way home, blast your way through the grocery store and barely make it home in time to throw together some semblance of dinner before you’re off again to hockey, cheer or dance practice.  If you’re lucky it ends there and there are no late PTA meetings or late night work obligations you have to force yourself out of the house for again.  By the time you mange to lay down your weary head you can feel your heartbeat pulsing in your feet, your calves are screaming and your lower back aches….but you looked good, because you were rocking those killer heels you picked up on sale last weekend.  Admit it, you’ve been then, sacrificing comfort for looks.  Vanity insanity is real and I’m as guilty as the next girl.

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Why do we do this to ourselves? Put fashion before function.  It’s important to give your feet a fighting chance! No matter how often you wear heels, you’re not superwoman. Whether it’s just for a night on the town, or a full day of meetings there are ways you can decrease discomfort and protect your back.  There are a couple of tricks we can try to make sure we are taking care of our feet, and ultimately our whole selves.  These tips, provided by the Ontario Chiropractic Association, include:

Cushion the blow, and use padded cushions in the front of your shoes. These will help provide added support for the balls of your feet and keep your toes from getting squished into the front of your shoes.
Bring a spare pair of shoes. If you’re wearing new shoes, or something that you know can cause you aches and pains, make sure you bring a spare pair that can provide you support and comfort.

It’s also important to remember that it’s not only sky-high heels that can be painful, but poorly chosen running shoes and sandals can also do damage to your joints and lower back.  Flip-flops may give your feet some relief from the summer heat, but reality is that many rubber flip-flops don’t offer your feet the support they need. Wearing shoes with little (or no!) arch support can result in the overuse of muscles and tendons not only in your feet, but your hips, ankles, knees and back – which can result in undue stress and pain.   How often have you seen women walking though amusement parks, or out exploring a new area in nothing but their flip-flops?  They might as well be in bare feet!

Your choice of running shoe is equally important.  These shoes may seem comfortable in comparison to some of your high heels, but it’s important to choose the right runner for your foot. According to the Ontario Chiropractic Association, depending on whether or not you have high or low arches will reflect the type of shoe you need to ensure you have the proper support. The top three things to keep in mind when choosing a running shoe are: the shape, the construction and the midsole.

The Ontario Chiropractic Association warns that poor footwear can cause problems for your feet, knees, hips low back as well as your spine. Perhaps it’s time to invest in a new pair of shoes!  When it comes time to shop for new shoes, consider the time of day you’re going.  Did you know that not all hours are the same when judging the fit?  It’s true.  You should shop for new shoes in the afternoon or evening, as your feet tend to accumulate fluid and swell throughout the day. Shopping for shoes in the morning could lead you to purchasing ill-fitting footwear.  When summer comes there’s even more fluctuation in how much your feet may swell, so shopping for shoes in the late afternoon or in the evening will help you find footwear that is comfortable from sun up to sundown.

Take the time to look after your feet, you’re joints and lower back will thank you!

For more information on bones, muscles, joints and the central nervous system, and as a resource to find a local chiropractor if needed please visit www.chiropractic.on.ca.

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    Comments

    1. ivy pluchinsky says

      July 11, 2016 at 3:49 pm

      I have for a family members wedding! My feet hurt so bad afterwards.

    2. SweetPanda says

      July 11, 2016 at 12:09 pm

      Yes. In the summer, when I wear shorts, I want to look taller so I always pair up with high heels. Last week, I did not expect that we would walked around that long and I mistakenly wore my high heels. I was so tired that after walking for a couple of hours, I needed to sit down. And my feet hurt for a week before I can wear high heels again

    3. Tara Betterley says

      July 11, 2016 at 8:20 am

      I do all the time. I once wore my gorgeous high heel shoes to my brothers wedding, two days before I broke my foot, I went through the pain to wear the shoes instead of my cast, I went to the hospital two days after the wedding to have the cast put on. I am constantly wearing flip flops on long hikes as well!! My friends always laugh at me..

    4. Elizabeth R says

      July 11, 2016 at 7:58 am

      Yes, I had a pair for a business meeting and afterwards I had to wear running shoes for a week because of the blisters!

    5. Andrea Amy says

      July 11, 2016 at 2:49 am

      Not in recent years, but when I was younger and more concerned about “pretty” over “comfort” I did many many times (and I think my feet are still suffering the consequences lol)

    6. Jeannie says

      July 10, 2016 at 11:55 pm

      I have picked pretty shoes for a Christmas Party and regretted it the minute we got to the party. In fact, this is a mistake a make every year! I find that my pretty, but painful shoes goes so much better with my outfit!

    7. BobbiJo Pentney says

      July 10, 2016 at 11:47 pm

      I have picked bad shoes because they made me taller and matched my dress. Bad mistake, I was a wallflower all night.

    8. Jennifer P. says

      July 10, 2016 at 10:40 pm

      I used to pick uncomfortable shoes all the time when I was younger – for job interviews, work, going out on the town, and even just for everyday wearing. It was sometimes because of a desired style / look that I wanted, sometimes due to what I could afford at the time, or sometimes due to the desire to have a certain brand that was popular at the time. Now I almost always pick comfort and style together.

    9. charityk says

      July 10, 2016 at 9:22 pm

      i have bought painful shoes only when i know it will be for a short time and ofcourse they have to look fab!

    10. Gillian Morgan says

      July 10, 2016 at 7:38 pm

      For my cousins wedding I wore a pair of heels that were gorgeous because I wanted to wear something different. At the end of the night my feet were bleeding.

    11. kathy downey says

      July 10, 2016 at 12:02 pm

      I only have sensible one’s because of my disability……but i do love the pretty ones!!

    12. Sarah Stickney says

      July 10, 2016 at 9:41 am

      I haven’t. I always chose comfort first.

    13. Tainan Lu says

      July 10, 2016 at 2:03 am

      I’d rather wear comfortable shoes.

    14. jan says

      July 10, 2016 at 12:36 am

      Our last XMas party! I hadn’t done that since I was very young, and it will be the last time.

    15. laura says

      July 9, 2016 at 10:50 pm

      I have and I always regret it because I don’t ever where them lol

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