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Those High Heels And Flip-Flips Are A Pain In The Back!

in Lifestyle on 07/08/16

Does this sound familiar?

You leave the house at the crack of dawn, drop the kids off at school, dash to the office, power through your work day…running from meeting to meeting.  Fight traffic on the way home, blast your way through the grocery store and barely make it home in time to throw together some semblance of dinner before you’re off again to hockey, cheer or dance practice.  If you’re lucky it ends there and there are no late PTA meetings or late night work obligations you have to force yourself out of the house for again.  By the time you mange to lay down your weary head you can feel your heartbeat pulsing in your feet, your calves are screaming and your lower back aches….but you looked good, because you were rocking those killer heels you picked up on sale last weekend.  Admit it, you’ve been then, sacrificing comfort for looks.  Vanity insanity is real and I’m as guilty as the next girl.

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Why do we do this to ourselves? Put fashion before function.  It’s important to give your feet a fighting chance! No matter how often you wear heels, you’re not superwoman. Whether it’s just for a night on the town, or a full day of meetings there are ways you can decrease discomfort and protect your back.  There are a couple of tricks we can try to make sure we are taking care of our feet, and ultimately our whole selves.  These tips, provided by the Ontario Chiropractic Association, include:

Cushion the blow, and use padded cushions in the front of your shoes. These will help provide added support for the balls of your feet and keep your toes from getting squished into the front of your shoes.
Bring a spare pair of shoes. If you’re wearing new shoes, or something that you know can cause you aches and pains, make sure you bring a spare pair that can provide you support and comfort.

It’s also important to remember that it’s not only sky-high heels that can be painful, but poorly chosen running shoes and sandals can also do damage to your joints and lower back.  Flip-flops may give your feet some relief from the summer heat, but reality is that many rubber flip-flops don’t offer your feet the support they need. Wearing shoes with little (or no!) arch support can result in the overuse of muscles and tendons not only in your feet, but your hips, ankles, knees and back – which can result in undue stress and pain.   How often have you seen women walking though amusement parks, or out exploring a new area in nothing but their flip-flops?  They might as well be in bare feet!

Your choice of running shoe is equally important.  These shoes may seem comfortable in comparison to some of your high heels, but it’s important to choose the right runner for your foot. According to the Ontario Chiropractic Association, depending on whether or not you have high or low arches will reflect the type of shoe you need to ensure you have the proper support. The top three things to keep in mind when choosing a running shoe are: the shape, the construction and the midsole.

The Ontario Chiropractic Association warns that poor footwear can cause problems for your feet, knees, hips low back as well as your spine. Perhaps it’s time to invest in a new pair of shoes!  When it comes time to shop for new shoes, consider the time of day you’re going.  Did you know that not all hours are the same when judging the fit?  It’s true.  You should shop for new shoes in the afternoon or evening, as your feet tend to accumulate fluid and swell throughout the day. Shopping for shoes in the morning could lead you to purchasing ill-fitting footwear.  When summer comes there’s even more fluctuation in how much your feet may swell, so shopping for shoes in the late afternoon or in the evening will help you find footwear that is comfortable from sun up to sundown.

Take the time to look after your feet, you’re joints and lower back will thank you!

For more information on bones, muscles, joints and the central nervous system, and as a resource to find a local chiropractor if needed please visit www.chiropractic.on.ca.

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    Comments

    1. Brenda Witherspoon-Bedard says

      July 9, 2016 at 10:20 pm

      I have done that too and for a wedding – the shoes were VERY cute though

    2. CL Chin says

      July 9, 2016 at 10:15 pm

      Yes I chose to wear some high heels to a dinner dance and I hadn’t really practiced walking in them. On the night I wore them, I could hardly walk to the corner because they were too awkward for me to walk in. Luckily I brought another pair of shoes with me just in case!

    3. Laurie@The Baking Bookworm says

      July 9, 2016 at 9:04 pm

      I’m on my feet a lot during the day for my job. I typically don’t wear heels but have an awesome pair of books that have quite a heel that I love to wear. Unfortunately they hurt my feet after a few hours. Sadly comfy shoes aren’t always the cutest shoes. 🙁

    4. Cheryl Grandy says

      July 9, 2016 at 7:30 pm

      I try to choose comfortable shoes that look good too, but often find that shoes that seem comfortable at first, hurt after a few hours. As a result, I’ve spent many hours in uncomfortable shoes. Maybe I need to break them in or else not buy such cheap shoes.

    5. Soozle says

      July 9, 2016 at 3:59 pm

      I have 100% chosen cute shoes over sensible for weddings!

    6. Doris H says

      July 9, 2016 at 3:12 pm

      Yes, I did for my convocation. They didn’t last long.

    7. Florence C says

      July 9, 2016 at 2:11 pm

      I have picked uncomfortable shoes a few times in the past. Left me with sore toes or heels.

      • Florence C says

        July 9, 2016 at 2:15 pm

        I picked them for weddings and work. Trying to stick to a budget. Really buying cheap don’t pay off in the long run.

    8. heather sibley says

      July 9, 2016 at 1:59 pm

      My wedding shoes were terribly uncomfortable and I never wore them again.

    9. Joanne Frank says

      July 9, 2016 at 12:04 pm

      oh yes i did my painful wedding shoe .. cheap cheap cheap ughh

    10. LisaM says

      July 9, 2016 at 11:41 am

      I have – like you for a wedding but I had no choice! I was in the wedding party

    11. Erica Seaman says

      July 9, 2016 at 11:04 am

      I have picked uncomfortable shoes…they look so pretty and I think “how bad can they be?”. I have learned my lesson.
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    12. Mary says

      July 9, 2016 at 10:26 am

      I pick pretty uncomfortable shoes all the time…the are my sitting or standing shoes! I would never walk for any great distance in them; I have other shoes for that!

    13. christine w says

      July 9, 2016 at 10:14 am

      yes, all the time. I wore 5 inch heels all day at work yesterday and my feet hurt.

    14. Judy Cowan says

      July 9, 2016 at 9:47 am

      No I haven’t, I am a comfort girl all the way when it comes to shoes. I hate wasting money on shoes that hurt my feet. Probably the worst I have done is where a pair of new shoes for an entire day without breaking them in first.

    15. Amber Y says

      July 9, 2016 at 7:47 am

      I’ve bought ill fitting shoes, but not because they looked good. My last pair of work shoes were a nightmare!! They fit really comfortable in the store. They were excellent the first day I wore them and then they started to hurt. I figured I juts had to wear them in like any other new shoe, but oi vey! Turns out they were slightly too narrow and running around in them all day really wore on my feet. Lesson learned.

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