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Those High Heels And Flip-Flips Are A Pain In The Back!

in Lifestyle on 07/08/16

Does this sound familiar?

You leave the house at the crack of dawn, drop the kids off at school, dash to the office, power through your work day…running from meeting to meeting.  Fight traffic on the way home, blast your way through the grocery store and barely make it home in time to throw together some semblance of dinner before you’re off again to hockey, cheer or dance practice.  If you’re lucky it ends there and there are no late PTA meetings or late night work obligations you have to force yourself out of the house for again.  By the time you mange to lay down your weary head you can feel your heartbeat pulsing in your feet, your calves are screaming and your lower back aches….but you looked good, because you were rocking those killer heels you picked up on sale last weekend.  Admit it, you’ve been then, sacrificing comfort for looks.  Vanity insanity is real and I’m as guilty as the next girl.

ShoesOff

Why do we do this to ourselves? Put fashion before function.  It’s important to give your feet a fighting chance! No matter how often you wear heels, you’re not superwoman. Whether it’s just for a night on the town, or a full day of meetings there are ways you can decrease discomfort and protect your back.  There are a couple of tricks we can try to make sure we are taking care of our feet, and ultimately our whole selves.  These tips, provided by the Ontario Chiropractic Association, include:

Cushion the blow, and use padded cushions in the front of your shoes. These will help provide added support for the balls of your feet and keep your toes from getting squished into the front of your shoes.
Bring a spare pair of shoes. If you’re wearing new shoes, or something that you know can cause you aches and pains, make sure you bring a spare pair that can provide you support and comfort.

It’s also important to remember that it’s not only sky-high heels that can be painful, but poorly chosen running shoes and sandals can also do damage to your joints and lower back.  Flip-flops may give your feet some relief from the summer heat, but reality is that many rubber flip-flops don’t offer your feet the support they need. Wearing shoes with little (or no!) arch support can result in the overuse of muscles and tendons not only in your feet, but your hips, ankles, knees and back – which can result in undue stress and pain.   How often have you seen women walking though amusement parks, or out exploring a new area in nothing but their flip-flops?  They might as well be in bare feet!

Your choice of running shoe is equally important.  These shoes may seem comfortable in comparison to some of your high heels, but it’s important to choose the right runner for your foot. According to the Ontario Chiropractic Association, depending on whether or not you have high or low arches will reflect the type of shoe you need to ensure you have the proper support. The top three things to keep in mind when choosing a running shoe are: the shape, the construction and the midsole.

The Ontario Chiropractic Association warns that poor footwear can cause problems for your feet, knees, hips low back as well as your spine. Perhaps it’s time to invest in a new pair of shoes!  When it comes time to shop for new shoes, consider the time of day you’re going.  Did you know that not all hours are the same when judging the fit?  It’s true.  You should shop for new shoes in the afternoon or evening, as your feet tend to accumulate fluid and swell throughout the day. Shopping for shoes in the morning could lead you to purchasing ill-fitting footwear.  When summer comes there’s even more fluctuation in how much your feet may swell, so shopping for shoes in the late afternoon or in the evening will help you find footwear that is comfortable from sun up to sundown.

Take the time to look after your feet, you’re joints and lower back will thank you!

For more information on bones, muscles, joints and the central nervous system, and as a resource to find a local chiropractor if needed please visit www.chiropractic.on.ca.

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    Comments

    1. Debbie F says

      July 19, 2016 at 11:33 pm

      Like you I bought pretty shoes for my wedding that really hurt. Luckily a friend has told me to bring flip flops and once I hit the reception it was flip flops only.

    2. Julie bolduc says

      July 18, 2016 at 9:40 pm

      Yes I did when I went on a trip with my parents I bought new saddles and Oh boy did I ever get so many blisters

    3. Carey Hurst says

      July 18, 2016 at 9:08 pm

      No not for me I have not. I have small fit so most shoes are comfy for me . I would wear a pair though if need be but have not done so thus far

    4. Athena says

      July 17, 2016 at 8:04 pm

      More times than I can count. Shoes are one of my weaknesses!

    5. michelle matta says

      July 17, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      its been years since ive chosen wrong. highschool probably. i hope/expect i might again soon. my health went downhill for many years so i was always choosing comfort over style. recently i got a new lease and i realize the most awesome thing is being so healthy that you can think/wear/do things that are more for enjoyment than necessity. the shoes i can think of that i chose wrong were a rust-coloured high heel that were definetly not nice enough to warrant the discomfort 🙂

    6. missbobloblaw says

      July 17, 2016 at 2:13 am

      Oh yes! I bought a pair of 5 inch stillettos because they were on for 90% off. That price should of been a biiiiig clue because I almost broke my ankles and ripped them off with blisters! But the shoes were so pretty (and on sale) LOL!

    7. Jessica Gipson says

      July 15, 2016 at 12:01 pm

      Yes I have picked shoes that were too tall, I was okay walking in them for a short time but after sometime I had to take them off for relief.

    8. Erika Letson says

      July 15, 2016 at 9:28 am

      I definitely have picked shoes that were too tight and too tall of a heel for a wedding and I was so uncomfortable!

    9. Valerie Mallette says

      July 13, 2016 at 10:30 pm

      I bought a pair of flats for work that seemed comfortable when I bought them but ended being too painful for me to wear.

    10. MOHAMMAD anjum says

      July 13, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      purchased shoes that are terrible

    11. Peady @ Tempered With Kindness says

      July 13, 2016 at 9:58 am

      I have! Remember those chunky stOOpid 90’s high heels? Oy! I wandered around ATX with them for an entire day and it was torturous. I would *never* do that now. No way.

      Feet = foundation.

      Sneakers rock! 😀

    12. Tina L. says

      July 12, 2016 at 11:09 pm

      Yes, I have purchase ill fitting shoes lots of times. But a lot less now that I’m older and wiser 🙂

    13. Glogirl says

      July 12, 2016 at 2:34 pm

      I’ve picked up ill fitting shoes just because they were such an incredible price. Needless to say, I only wore the shoes a few times before sending them to the thrift store.

    14. lori butler says

      July 12, 2016 at 10:41 am

      I enjoy pampered feet, I have purchased shoes that are terrible 🙁

    15. Jenny says

      July 11, 2016 at 9:17 pm

      I have a couple of pairs of shoes in the closet that have only been worn once

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