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Tired of the Tears

in Everyday on 06/09/10

A girlfriends father passed away this week.  Suddenly 65 seems so very young….

My daughter did not make the team she spent all year working for.  Her heart is breaking, and mine is right along with it. 

I have to go for an MRI…I’m sure not sure scared out of my freaking mind everything will be okay, and somehow this makes me cry.

A dentist appointment this week where I get to choose if I want to have freezing or not?  Huh? Okay, this doesn’t make me cry but kind of scares the crap out of me.  Shouldn’t the Dentist, you know, the expert make this decision?

Last night I was touched when super sweet Taylor Matthew’s Dad swelled with pride as his son performed on American Idol (*thank you PVR).  The pride in his eyes as his son sang his heart out….more tears. 

Sweetness

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This poor bird flailing in the oil as captured by The Canadian Press.  More tears.  How can BP ever make this right?

bird in oil

Prayers for the departed and the sick, hope for the lonely, cheers for the sweetness….pass the kleenex. 

So, enough with the tears. 

Had to get it off my chest. 

Next post, I’ll bring back the joy.

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    Comments

    1. Ash says

      June 10, 2010 at 4:33 pm

      i have a knot in my chest too by reading this post. 🙁 hope you feel better soon – losing someone/something is never a good thing but we try to get by with our beloved ones. {{hugs}}

      ~ash’s mum

    2. Randi Troxell says

      June 10, 2010 at 4:28 pm

      some days just suck much more than others… we are all allowed…

      thinking of ya……..

    3. Sara @ Domestically Challenged says

      June 10, 2010 at 3:29 pm

      Hugs to you and stay strong!

    4. Lisa Anne says

      June 10, 2010 at 2:45 pm

      With all the bad in the world, I try to think about all the good and how things could always be a lot worse. Good luck with your MRI. Sometimes we all need to just cry, so I say let it out and like you said bring the joy tomorrow!

      Take care!

    5. Cool Gal says

      June 10, 2010 at 12:15 pm

      The Gulf situation breaks my heart. All of it. Loss of life/wildlife, loss of jobs, loss of income. It’s all so sad (Seriously, I can’t look at those birds slowly dying in the oil. I scream at the t.v. every time.).

      The video of Taylor Matthew in America’s got talent perked me up, though. The pride his father felt watching his kid brought tears to my eyes. How incredible.

      Sorry for your daughter. That’s tough. Even the best have been cut from teams – Michael Jordan and Erik Johnson, to name a few. I know your daughter will make that team one day and you will be able to look back on this (when she’s better than everyone else) as a “growing experience.” Sucks now. Really, really sucks. The politics of the ‘burbs!! 🙁

      Hope your MRI goes well. Let us know.

      Finally, I gave my hubby that swat this morning. I couldn’t the past two because he left for work so early. I certainly shocked the hell out of him. He immediately turned around with this sh$$ ass grin on his face. I think he liked it! LOL! 🙂 Thanks so much for the idea!

      Chin up, my friend! Wishing you brighter days ahead.

    6. Just Breathe says

      June 10, 2010 at 5:37 am

      Sometimes things just suck! {{HUGS}}

    7. Amo says

      June 10, 2010 at 1:46 am

      I’m so sorry you are going through all of this. I’ve spent a few days crying myself! I will send up prayers for you to find some peace amidst this crazy ride we call life. Until then, take care of yourself and give yourself and your family some extra love.

    8. WPMomOf2 (jen) says

      June 9, 2010 at 11:25 pm

      man oh man…this is a BAD DAY if I ever heard one!

    9. RoseBelle says

      June 9, 2010 at 10:19 pm

      Hope all will brighten up for you. When bad things come, they keep coming. Sorry to hear about your friend’s dad. 65 years old is young but you know, it’s the number of years that you lived but how you lived during those years. As for your dental dilemma, what is freezing by the btw?

    10. Gigi says

      June 9, 2010 at 9:51 pm

      Oh bless you!! No deserves to have a week like that! Many thoughts & prayers regarding the MRI. Google the whole “freezing” thing check out the whole thing so you can make an informed decision. Go grab a bottle of wine and relax. It will all be fine. I feel sure!

    11. Jessica-Lauren says

      June 9, 2010 at 9:25 pm

      I hope things brighten up soon for you! Prayers for your unhappiness on this day!

      remember this quote “This too, Shall pass”

      xoxo. Jessica-Lauren

    12. shortmama says

      June 9, 2010 at 8:28 pm

      My thoughts are with you…hopefully there will be many smiles to come soon!

    13. Tammy says

      June 9, 2010 at 8:18 pm

      Sending you a great big hug!!!

    14. Busy Bee Suz says

      June 9, 2010 at 8:08 pm

      Try to think positive about the MRI. Sorry about your losses…I hate it when our kids have to learn heartbreak early on.
      Go for the freezing with the dentist. (is that the same as numbing?)
      hugs, Suz

    15. liz says

      June 9, 2010 at 7:08 pm

      that bird photo is too much. I hope your MRI goes well, and i’m sorry for your daughter’s disappointment, too.

      who replaced hasslehoff? i need to make sure that’s set up to record. 🙂

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