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Be Kind. Always.

in Everyday on 01/27/16

 
Some days are good.  Some days are great.  Other days?  You may need the assistance of coffee, the motivation of warm pastries or even children to drag your ass out of bed.  It makes you think.  Do you ever really know what’s going on behind closed doors?  That smile you see on someone’s face?  Is it real, is it fake?  Is that Mama with the toddler screaming his head off, is she okay?  Is she smiling because she’s slightly embarassed or smiling to hold back the flood of tears?  The teenager down the road, maybe she’s not a sullen, moody bitch of a human being.  Maybe that poor kid has stuff going on at home, maybe her parents are fighting, what if her Grandparents are sick, maybe that girl is just plain sad.  The truth is, you never really know.
Yes, life can be sweet and joyous, and we hope each day is stuffed full of goodness.  But the hard truth is, life can kind of suck too.  Have you ever thought about trying to make a difference?  Just a small one.  What if once a day you tried one small act of kindness.  Holding a door open for the person behind you, complementing a senior on her coat or warm winter hat, or just giving a knowing supportive nod to that Mama with the screaming Toddler.   Today, why not share a smile with a stranger?  Let someone else have the parking spot closest to the mall, pay for a strangers coffee at Tim Hortons, or drop a couple of items in the Good Will box.  Why?  Not just because it’s the right thing to do, but because you never know how one little act of kindness can shape the world of those around you.
Still think one small act of kindness can’t possibly make a difference?
This might change your mind.
Warning, you will need to grab the kleenex.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXOXsolDhKE

PS. Thanks for stopping by today, you are loved.

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    Comments

    1. Nate says

      January 29, 2016 at 8:46 pm

      Thanks for sharing the message

    2. Deborah Pucci says

      January 29, 2016 at 1:39 pm

      Thank you for sharing the video. Beautiful post!

    3. Liz says

      January 29, 2016 at 11:38 am

      A sweet message and so easy to do!

    4. Amie says

      January 28, 2016 at 8:33 pm

      Your the best , somedays you really need something like this to pop up , I was crying , but it was good 🙂 xoxo well written , thank you for sharing ! 😀

    5. Elizabeth Matthiesen says

      January 28, 2016 at 5:48 pm

      I need a lot more than one tissue, what a beautiful video. I try to do little acts of kindness, like holding the door for others and smiling at people on the street. Though I am amazed at how many seem to ignore this simple gesture of holding the door open for them and just walk/storm right passed me. I often wonder if they are in a bad mood because something is going on in their lives that I know nothing about, that makes me sad.

    6. Chandra O'Connor says

      January 28, 2016 at 2:40 pm

      im always trying to be kind and I try to teach my girls to be kind

    7. Athena says

      January 27, 2016 at 7:34 pm

      Such an amazing message!

    8. Chandra O'Connor says

      January 27, 2016 at 7:22 pm

      Love these videos, there is another one going on FB too that’s really good.

    9. Soozle says

      January 27, 2016 at 6:42 pm

      Such a wonderful post! That video *sniffle* *sniffle* – it really reminds me that I have it pretty good, and something as simple as a smile can make the world to another!

    10. Gigi says

      January 27, 2016 at 6:05 pm

      Oh Stephanie…I can’t even see the screen through my tears!

      Hopefully, this video will go viral and remind people that kindness always comes back tenfold. And if it doesn’t? Well, still…offering kindness to others is the only way to go.

    11. Stephanie LaPlante says

      January 27, 2016 at 4:53 pm

      Oh man! That gave me goosebumps. Do you ever watch a video, then want to hug attack people? Me….right now.

    12. Suzie M says

      January 27, 2016 at 4:39 pm

      It is amazing the difference you can make with just a little effort, & never ever presume to know what is really happening in someone elses life

    13. Melinda Jana says

      January 27, 2016 at 2:03 pm

      I love that video, it’s so sweet. And you totally have a way with words, it doesn’t hurt to be kind, to show kindness everywhere. After all, maybe your smile will brighten someone’s awful day or even opening doors for someone else might help them see that people are still kind and helpful in today’s fast pace society

    14. Judy Cowan says

      January 27, 2016 at 11:17 am

      Great post! It is the right thing to do, a small act of kindness can often go a long way to making someone’s day!

    15. Parent Club says

      January 27, 2016 at 9:47 am

      Such a good post Stephanie! Reminds me to be grateful for the good in my life (and to be good to others).

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