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Searching For A Smile

in Everyday on 11/08/14

Not all weeks in the suburbs are easy.  The weather gets you down, bills keep coming due, kids get sick, migraines hit,the furnace tanks, and personal stuff that’s even too hard for me to write about happens. Little things start to add up and wear on you.  Just run you down.  Way down.  A good cry might help.  For about a minute.  So does a big fat reality check. Life is not that bad.  The sun will shine again and all that crap jazz. 

What does help?  How do you shake off the gloom and see the silver lining? How about some little reminders of what made you smile during the week.  So today, a list of five little things that made me smile and helped me survive my life in the suburbs this week.

1.  This Face.

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We are adding to our family, bringing home a Blue Great Dane Puppy in just a few weeks.  Last weekend we went to see the gorgeous litter!  We know we’re getting a male pup, and this is one of those sweet, sweet faces.  This little guy, he made me smile, and even giggle a little.

2.  I was at a Shell Station handing out Gas Cards, trying to make other people’s days a little bit brighter.  What happened was quite the opposite.  Some very sweet, quite senior gentleman, was caught checking me out and making it quite clear that he would like to “fill my tank”?  Um what?  So rude that it was funny. So ridiculous that all I could do was laugh.  No thank you sir!

3. Cheer girls!  YUP!  I’m a Cheer Mom through and through.  My oldest had their first cheer competition this past weekend.  Did they win?  Not by a long shot.  Did the effort, the work and the smiles on their faces translate into the crowd?  Did their joy spread to me?  For those three and half minutes it sure did.  Pride, joy and happiness all rolled into one.  Thanks for the smile BlueEyes.

4. I stole a chocolate bar.  Okay not really. But late one night after the entire family had gone to bed, I sat by myself with my laptop on, the Young and the Restless playing in the background and snuck myself a full size candy bar out of that Halloween bowl.  I did this with just enough guilt to bring a smile to my face.  A grown up ass woman sneaking chocolate in the middle of the night and watching soaps?  How cliché!

5. A delivery!  Last month we went to Turks and Cacios.  Already it seems like some hazy dream, and then yesterday, a sweet delivery.  A simple fridge magnet with some of our favourite moments of the week collected.  Memories of the beach and dreams of future trips are always a good idea.

Magnet

Life in the suburbs isn’t always a bed of roses, but if you look really hard you can usually find something to smile about.  Hope you can all find your smiles today!

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    Comments

    1. Chandra O'Connor says

      November 9, 2014 at 8:57 am

      I cant take these puppy pictures makes me want one. so freaking cute.

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:40 pm

        LOL Sorry! We’ve waited almost a year for this little guy. Can’t wait to get him home!

    2. busy bee suz says

      November 9, 2014 at 8:32 am

      Love that you can always find something to smile about. That puppy? *swoon*

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:39 pm

        This may sound crazy, but we are already in love with this pup and we haven’t even brought him home yet! Or maybe it’s easier because right now he’s not peeing on our floor!

    3. Rossana says

      November 8, 2014 at 10:16 pm

      Sounds like you made the most out of the little moments, we all have to learn to do that! 🙂 Love the magnet capturing those special moments.

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:37 pm

        Trying so hard to make the most out of those little moments! And thanks, I’m loving that magnet on our kitchen fridge, it keeps taking me back to the beautiful Turks and Caicos and our fabulous getaway!

    4. Gigi says

      November 8, 2014 at 10:11 pm

      There is ALWAYS a silver lining…we just have to search for it.

      And if it’s a chocolate bar, accompanied with some guilty television, then so be it.

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:35 pm

        Three cheers for chocolate and late night TV!

    5. DARLENE W says

      November 8, 2014 at 9:31 pm

      sometimes its the little things that brings a smile to our face

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:35 pm

        Thank goodness for the little things that bring us joy!

    6. loucheryl says

      November 8, 2014 at 9:24 pm

      I loved the gas station story. FUNNY!!! I find that if I’m having a bad day, if I put a smile on my face I instantly start to feel better.

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:34 pm

        You are so right, sometimes you just have to fake it until you feel it!

    7. Athena says

      November 8, 2014 at 8:35 pm

      We all have our moments, we just have to enjoy ourselves and the little things!

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:34 pm

        The little things do help to get you through 🙂

    8. Holly says

      November 8, 2014 at 8:05 pm

      Your puppy is so cute! You can’t not smile at that face!

      My nieces and nephews make me smile daily. If I’m having a bad day, I just spend time with them!

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:33 pm

        It’s hard not to smile at that face, and you’re so right, my SassyNephew is always good for a grin!

    9. Josephine says

      November 8, 2014 at 6:58 pm

      Love the blue eyes of that sweet pup! Kind of hope that’s the one you will get! Just a few weeks and counting…he will be certain to make you smile!!

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:32 pm

        He is a sweetie, they all are! Can’t wait to get him home!

    10. AlwaysARedhead says

      November 8, 2014 at 3:41 pm

      A very cute puppy, but you do realize that having another baby is far easier? By the way, we have two dogs.

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:32 pm

        LOL We did discuss another baby, but I am a little to old for that now 🙂 Puppy for the win!

    11. Deborah Pucci says

      November 8, 2014 at 3:07 pm

      That face is so precious! Thanks for the smile…..

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:31 pm

        Doesn’t he have the sweetest face, and he is going to be a big boy! So happy he could give you a smile!

    12. DebH says

      November 8, 2014 at 1:04 pm

      That puppy has the most beautiful eyes; made me smile!

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:30 pm

        Doesn’t he!!! So glad he could give you a smile too!

    13. Suzie M says

      November 8, 2014 at 11:59 am

      My puppy brings me smiles everyday I am happy yours is soon to come home

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:30 pm

        Puppies, dogs are the best! Thanks !

    14. Buttons says

      November 8, 2014 at 11:34 am

      Oh you have everything you need “this soon will pass” as they say. Love the new family addition. I like your late night thing I do that myself sometimes. Take care HUG B

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:29 pm

        We can’t wait to get that little puppy home. Thanks for the kind words, they are very much appreciated 🙂

    15. Judy Cowan says

      November 8, 2014 at 11:10 am

      Sounds like you had some great smile moments this week! Love the blue eyes on the puppy!

      • Stephanie says

        November 14, 2014 at 8:27 pm

        I am kind of in love with those blue eyes!

        • Judy Cowan says

          November 15, 2014 at 2:05 pm

          Can’t wait to see pictures of the one you bring home! Do you know when you get him?

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