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Top Five Ways To Stress In The Suburbs

in Uncategorized on 05/30/13

Life is full of way toooo much stress.  Today I list my top five stupid stresses in the suburbs.  Why?  I hope if I just get it out there, I can let it go.  (and then make a brand new list of stresses next week)  After all, Blogging is cheaper then therapy right?

Here we go, my stresses this week: 

* Worry about what “they” think, say, do or feel.  Life is too short to worry about them.

* Concern myself with the “mess” my house is in.  Really?   What’s the point of cleaning if it just gets messy again anyway?  Besides as a good friend once told me; we come to see you, not your house. 

* That I look fat in those pants.  (I probably don’t)

*Retail therapy is not a real thing. Shopping is fabulous for stress removal in the moment, but has to be added to my stress list next week, when my VISA comes in!

*That I will be tired in the morning.  I know I will!  Just embrace it, I can sleep when the kids go to College.

Instead of all this stupid worrying, stressing and sadness I vote we band together, play nice, let the house go, switch to the almighty maxi dress (that is such a steal when you can find it on sale!) and meet some friends for a coffee!!  Hope you can find your joy today! 

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    Comments

    1. brich2222 says

      June 7, 2013 at 2:10 pm

      couldnot agreee with you more. Stop the pretending

    2. Wanda Bergman says

      June 6, 2013 at 2:33 pm

      I can sooo relate … especially the tired in the morning part.

    3. jruckerstacey says

      June 3, 2013 at 11:30 pm

      The house thing is something I totally agree with – but I am totally guilty of stressing myself out over. Its so stupid to worry about people coming over to a less than perfect home. Especially when we have kids – its something you can’t control. Children (and husbands) tend to leave crap everywhere, and you clean up the same things 10 times a day. However, I can’t seem to get over it! For some annoying reason I find myself rushing around like a crazy person cleaning and tidying as best as I can before someone pops over. In recent years I have figured it out: #igetitfrommymama

    4. Suzanne Smith says

      June 2, 2013 at 1:55 am

      Agreed – truce. (But I truly look fat in these pants). Suz

    5. Heidi Carlson-Reid says

      June 1, 2013 at 7:36 am

      I hear you! Cleaning, sleeping, working out – ah, there are more important priorities!

    6. Mom vs. the boys says

      May 31, 2013 at 8:19 pm

      my house is a total total disaster this week! I can clean when the kids go to college right?

    7. Polly says

      May 31, 2013 at 1:44 pm

      Oh sleep how I dream about you…!

    8. Mel says

      May 31, 2013 at 1:00 am

      Always better out then in!

    9. Busy Bee Suz says

      May 30, 2013 at 11:26 pm

      Get it all out there my friend! 🙂
      I’ve found that no matter how much sleep I get, I still look tired. I think that is just part of life and we’ve earned it.
      XOXO

    10. Soozle says

      May 30, 2013 at 11:22 pm

      Amen, sistah! 🙂

      Have a great weekend~

    11. Narathip W. says

      May 30, 2013 at 11:17 pm

      I agree with you.
      I am only dealing with my 20 months old and feel so tired already. 🙁

    12. Gigi says

      May 30, 2013 at 9:52 pm

      Definitely blogging is cheaper than therapy. And yes, you are right it’s better to just get them out and let them go.

    13. robinashton says

      May 30, 2013 at 2:32 pm

      Love your posts and the fact you are keeping it real for the rest of us in the suburbs!!

    14. Brian Miller says

      May 30, 2013 at 12:35 pm

      ouch on the VISA…
      waking up and realizing i forgot to get coffee on the way home…stresses me out…

    15. Jo says

      May 30, 2013 at 12:29 pm

      I think you are totally right! I’m off to have another cuppa!

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