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Gone too Soon

in Everyday on 11/19/10

Today I am trying to figure out what to wear.  It doesn’t matter if it is pretty, or stylish, or goes with my new killer heels.  Today it only matters if it is black.

This afternoon I am going to a funeral.  A daughter, a sister, an aunt, a friend, a wife, a Mommy to two little boys.  Will they remember her? The light in her eyes, the lilt in her laugh.  The way she fought. 

Cancer never killed her spirit. 

Remember when 38 sounded old….

Go now.  Get off your computers.  Go hug your children and call your sister.  Forgive old hurts, let go of the stress and be thankful for every annoyance, every tear, every tiny smile. 

Try today to enjoy a moment….and be thankful that you will have many more.

 
St. Theresa’s Prayer

May today there be peace within.

May you trust that you are exactly
where you are meant to be.

May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are
born of faith in yourself and others.

May you use the gifts that you have received,
and pass on the love that has been given to you.

May you be content with yourself
just the way you are.

Let this knowledge settle into your bones,
and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.

It is there for each and every one of us.

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    Comments

    1. yonca says

      November 22, 2010 at 4:50 pm

      I’m truly sorry for your loss.You and you’re family are in my thoughts.

    2. Midwest Mommy says

      November 22, 2010 at 3:36 am

      I am so sorry. My heart hurts for her family tonight.

    3. LegosInMyPocket says

      November 22, 2010 at 2:48 am

      I Am so sorry for your loss.. this was a beautiful post.

      Hi! Im a new follower to you blog from the meditative mom…I still have alot of catch-up reading to do on your blog, but so far i really like what I’ve seen! can’t wait to read more! I hope you can stop by and check out our blog as well, and leave a little <3!! :)
      ~Jaimie
      http://legosinmypocket.blogspot.com/

    4. Insanitykim says

      November 22, 2010 at 2:40 am

      Hugs and prayers of strength and peace to you and your friend’s family. Thank you for posting the poem too.

    5. Lakeland Jo says

      November 21, 2010 at 9:28 pm

      As a cancer sufferer myself this made me heart sore. I loved your prayer- it is hope in such darkness XX

    6. The Meditative Mom says

      November 21, 2010 at 5:11 pm

      I’ve chosen you for some awards… check out http://themeditativemom.blogspot.com/2010/11/ive-been-awarded.html to accept them.

    7. Clippy Mat says

      November 21, 2010 at 1:22 pm

      38! How awful. How unfair. How cruel. How sad. How terrible for all. It just is sad to read that whether I know the woman or not. I just can’t imagine what that is like and to leave behind two little children. It’s devastating.
      Thank you for the reminder. It’s always needed.
      🙁

    8. Bek says

      November 21, 2010 at 4:31 am

      I am sorry for your loss, I totally understand and agree. We must all make the most of every moment we have. One of my closest friends little girl was diagnosed with leukemia at 6mths, she has just turned one and finished chemotherapy and is in remission (for now). It is not until we lose people suddenly or from a horrible disease that we realise how much we must embrace every moment and chance….

    9. Eliza says

      November 21, 2010 at 2:35 am

      Oh I’m so sorry, it’s very sad. Thank you for posting the prayer, beautiful and true.

    10. diane says

      November 20, 2010 at 9:49 pm

      wow, that’s too young.
      this post is hard for me, my MIL is in the final stages. she’s in so much discomfort, it’s awful. hugs.

    11. Missy says

      November 20, 2010 at 8:40 pm

      Sorry for your loss!
      This is a beautiful post!

    12. ChiTown Girl says

      November 20, 2010 at 4:09 pm

      I’m so sorry for your loss. {{{hugs}}}

    13. J.G. says

      November 20, 2010 at 2:42 pm

      We always think we have plenty of time, but we really don’t ever have enough time with those we love. Thanks for the reminder. My heart goes out to everyone who is missing her . . .

    14. Queen Bug says

      November 20, 2010 at 8:18 am

      I’m truly sorry for your loss. Sometimes people do just get so busy with life, and with things that are going right and wrong that we forget to appreciate what we’ve been given. I’ve posted something like that many times on my blog.. and I still forget. Thanks for the reminder.

    15. kyooty says

      November 20, 2010 at 2:53 am

      I’m so sorry for your loss. hugs and prayers.

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