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She is 11 going on 16

in Uncategorized on 01/07/10

My BlueEyed girl turns 11 today.
I honestly don’t know where the years have gone.
She arrived following a wicked snow squall that silenced the city.
On that day the love I felt was so great, so overwhelming, it nearly stopped my heart.
She changed my life forever.
She is my dream come true.
My daily challenge.
A confident, defiant, expressive, whirlwind in one moment, a stumbling, eager, quiet thinker the next.
Bright and brilliant.
Beautiful and creative.
Friend to the lonely and leader of the pack.
She is caught in that awkward place between child and teenager.
Needing Mommy, wanting to do it all herself.
We have learned together, fallen together, cried together and laughed together.
I thank God for her each and every night.

As she stumbles towards adulthood I will lead, she will rebel.
We will butt heads.
We are too much alike.
I am so proud of the person she has become, and am excited to see what this world has in store for her. What she has in store for the world!

One of my favorite sayings “Prepare the child for the path, not the path for the child.”

Baby girl I am doing my best.

To you, on your 11th Birthday, I wish you sweet dreams, exciting adventures, true friends, and good health.

I truly adore you with all of my heart.

Mommy
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    Comments

    1. Adventures In China says

      January 8, 2010 at 5:03 am

      Happy Birthday to ModernDaughter! I love hearing about this new generation of strong, thoughtful, wonderful girls. The world needs more moms like you.

    2. mudmama says

      January 8, 2010 at 4:58 am

      That is so dear 🙂 Very touching, happy birthday to sweetheart!

    3. Courtney says

      January 8, 2010 at 3:26 am

      What a beautiful post! They grow up so fast. She’ll love you no matter what, and will one day appreciate everythingy you do for her [even if she doesn’t realize it now.]

      And yes ma’am. I do know my football. We are born and bred into the SEC from the time we are born. The first words uttered to my son when he was born were, “Hey Noah. Roll Tide!” Haha. It’s serious for us. Third only to God and Family.

    4. elzimmy says

      January 8, 2010 at 3:23 am

      I can relate as I have an 11 yr old daughter myself. Very sweet post.

    5. shortmama says

      January 8, 2010 at 3:06 am

      Happy 11th bday to your girl!

    6. Tammy says

      January 8, 2010 at 3:05 am

      My daughter is 9 going on 16! What a loving mom you are…I hope she knows it!

    7. Tammy says

      January 8, 2010 at 3:03 am

      I have a 9 year old daughter going on 16. That was so sweet.

    8. Janie B says

      January 8, 2010 at 2:29 am

      What sweet things to say to your daughter! I hope she reads it.

    9. blueviolet says

      January 8, 2010 at 1:43 am

      That was a beautiful letter to your daughter! Do you know how much she will treasure that one day? 🙂

    10. Amo says

      January 8, 2010 at 1:04 am

      Yes, the time between child and teenager is such a challenging and awkward time. I know I was a trial for my mother to deal with! Happy Birthday!!

    11. Brian Miller says

      January 8, 2010 at 1:04 am

      happy birthday to your little one! what a sweet post. a whirlwind…i like it. sounds like you have done a good job thus far.

    12. Busy Bee Suz says

      January 8, 2010 at 1:01 am

      This is so sweet…you are such a great Mommy. Happy Birthday Sweet Girl!!!

    13. babyyahyah says

      January 8, 2010 at 12:52 am

      awww happy birthday. my dd is 11 too.

    14. otin says

      January 8, 2010 at 12:48 am

      You should print that out and give it to her when she is older!

    15. Laura@Cowboy Boots says

      January 8, 2010 at 12:45 am

      See this is the reason i keep having them! them meaning our kiddos! :o)

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