How to Survive Life in the Suburbs

Butterfly Backings and ER Docs

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In the middle of June I took my two wonderful girls to get their ears pierced. They were 7 and 10 and had pleaded their case. Hubby and I figured these incredibly good girls were responsible enough to deserve such a privilege.
They (we) took care of those little lobes daily.
Cleansed, twisted, did not play with them.
They healed perfectly.

We were proud.

Last week they took out the big clumsy studs and put in the pretty wee earrings they have been coveting for months.

Still 14K gold. No cheapo stuff. We have heard about bad allergic reactions to those babies.

Continued to take good care for a day or two.

Then forgot about them.

One week later SweetGirl came charging into my bedroom yelling…

“Mommy Mommy I can’t find the backings to my earrings and I have looked everywhere!!”

I looked at her ears…those butterfly backings were INSIDE her earlobes. Her little earlobes swallowed up those backings and they were gone gone gone.

A quick trip to the pediatrician was not enough.

4 hours in the Emergency Room.
The very confident Emergency Room Physician had to freeze SweetGirls Ears while I acted all brave for her. My tiny 7 year old shook, whimpered and softly cried. ..my heart ached.

The butterfly backings were extracted with a little help from fancy tweezers and a scalpel.

I had no idea this could happen!

The lessons learned on this strange day:

Kids ears have the ability to heal over faster than Superman can fly.

Tiny butterfly backings should not be worn the first year. They are too easily PUSHED inside the earlobe by little girls who are fearful of losing the pretty little earrings.

Hoops are the best choice, followed by those great big post types of earrings.

Never wear the plastic cheapo backs…those ER Docs say they see A LOT of those!

Four hours in the ER for a relative simple procedure was emotionally and physically draining. Be thankful for your healthy children.

Hope you all have a safe and healthy weekend!

    • Comments

    1. Ow! Thank you for the advice. I had no idea that could happen either. I will bear it in mind when daughter has hers pierced (I keep telling her she has to be 18, but I know it will happen before then)

    2. ohhh your poor little girl! we had a similar incident with our now 14 year old. we caught it just before it started to heal over. so traumatic for her. glad your girl is better now.

    4. Never knew that! I am actually hesitant to pierce my daughter’s ears (she’s almost a year) because she’s always pulling at her ear lobes, but I never heard of such a thing you described! I am so sorry to hear you and your daughter had to go through that, but I’m certainly passing the information along.

      Glad to hear eveyone is doing ok!

    8. Oh my! I had no idea! Thanks for the heads up…and I’m so sorry you and your daughter had to go through that in order to educate the rest of us. Sending hugs!

    10. Oh no… I’m glad that she’s all right now. Thanks for sharing. My girl doesn’t have pierced ears (yet). We’ll see how long it’ll last. 🙂

    11. This just convinces me even more not to pierce Reagan’s ears. Although now with her super short hairdo thanks to her own handy work with the scissors, earrings may just be NEEDED!