Lately it seems I have been subjected to and confronted with some unsavoury, unwelcome and uncomfortable situations.
Liars. Creating mythical situation’s to make themselves seem better?
Nobody likes a liar, a gossip or a whore right? So why does this behaviour persist? And what is to be done about it?
When confronted with malicious behaviour that keeps you up at night, distracts you from your joy and perhaps even costs you friendships or professional contracts what is one to do? When you know lies are being spread, girls are being mean and evil is being done, where do you start? Do you confront these evil people and call them out on their actions? Perhaps you gently sweep their negative behaviour under the rug? Maybe even making excuses for the offenders?
I am a lover, not a fighter. Perhaps it is a weakness that I do not thrive on confrontation, but that is just the way it is. I rest in the knowledge that everyone is fighting their own battle and you truly never know what is going on behind closed doors, but seriously, sometimes don’t you just want to call a mean girl what she is? A bitch.
Time for me to open the door and let the negative people out of my life. Make more room for the joy. Liars will be liars. Gossips will one day be victims of their own game, and let’s face it Karma is a bitch. I shall leave it up to her.
PS. Sorry to be so cryptic, but it’s cheaper then therapy. xo