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How To Stop Your Family From Falling Into Debt

in Uncategorized on 06/30/11

Out here in the burbs life can really be a struggle. We may not talk about it much, but money can become a big ugly topic. Below is a guest post about how you can stop your family from falling into debt.

The simplest way to stay out of debt is to spend less than you have coming in every single month. Clever budgeting also means you can put money into savings.

Savings could be really helpful if your income was suddenly cut (perhaps if you lost your job) or if you needed more money for an unexpected expense (like fixing your car, or a new arrival in the family).

How does someone fall into debt?

If you spend freely, don’t plan for the future, buy on impulse and don’t worry about unnecessary expense, you might end up borrowing money to fund your lifestyle. If you’re not careful, you could fall into the dreaded ‘debt spiral’ by living beyond your means.

The debt spiral – it could work like this…

1. Spend more than income.

2. Borrow for lifestyle choices.

3. Have to make debt repayments so have less free money.

4. Borrow more money to maintain lifestyle.

5. Debt repayments begin to creep above 50% of income.

6. Struggle to make debt repayments.

7. No longer able to borrow money.

8. Very little money free to spend as it is all servicing debts.

9. Real possibility of falling into arrears with important bills such as mortgage / council tax / fuel.

10. Possible home repossession and / or court action.

It can happen to anyone, rich or poor, because it’s all about how much you borrow compared with what you can afford to repay.

How can I stop that happening?

The debt spiral is quite scary because it’s easy to see how someone might get into that pattern of behaviour.

Do you see your own situation in the debt spiral? If so, you should look into budgeting now – whatever stage you’re at. You can get help from friends or relatives or, if you don’t want to ask them, you could talk to a professional.

Look at the debt spiral – are you making any of these mistakes? Budgeting won’t solve every problem in everyone’s situation, but it can help you to take control of your financial situation and begin planning for your future. Talk to a professional and you could also get some useful tips on how to manage your finances more effectively.

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    Comments

    1. Debbie White Beattie says

      October 30, 2017 at 11:19 pm

      I find everyone today use their credit card as money instead of money and then they have so much on credit that they have no way to pay it back I only use my credit card so I can collect points but I don’t spend more than I can pay back

    2. Heather says

      July 1, 2011 at 12:53 am

      Thanks for the post! I got off my tushy and put together my life list. Now I’ll get my rear in gear and put my budget together. Thanks!!!!

    3. Gigi says

      June 30, 2011 at 9:49 pm

      We never really lived beyond our means – we only have one major credit card and used it sparingly. Our downfall was not creating a savings-cushion. Now that hubby is out of work we are in a major bind. Start saving now!!

    4. Heather says

      June 30, 2011 at 6:44 pm

      We use the Dave Ramsey budgeting plan and it is good for us.

      Finally it has gotten to where the thought of debt is worse to me than the thought of waiting for something I want.

    5. Carolynn Gomez says

      June 30, 2011 at 5:14 pm

      Thanks for this article! I added a link to this article from my blog. 🙂 Check it out!
      http://www.themodernmamamemoirs.com

    6. Loukia says

      June 30, 2011 at 3:20 pm

      I am very much in debt. Great tips. Hate the idea of having a budget, but know I need to…

    7. KT says

      June 30, 2011 at 2:19 pm

      Seems so simple, yet so many people fall into the trap of overspending. And like the comment above, it really can wreck havoc on a relationship.

    8. Brian Miller says

      June 30, 2011 at 2:07 pm

      good stuff. finances affect every part of your life…it can really be a bane on a marriage…stress from finances can ruin your health as well…

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