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I'm often amazed and confused by the bizarre happenings behind the closed and competitive doors of the typical suburban home. The following is a place to share my thoughts and reflections on daily life as I try to navigate this crazy and wonderful world.






Friday, June 5, 2009

What I Should Have Done Today


What I Should be Doing....cleaning up my house. Mother in Law is babysitting tonight and the house must be beyond regular babysitter clean, it must be Mother in Law clean.
What I'm Doing Instead....shopping for a new pair of jeans that does not make me look like I am wearing a diaper under my pants. Severe case of baggy pants going on here.

What I Should Be Doing....having a salad for lunch. Light on the calories, easy on the hips.
What I'm Doing Instead...Oh Help Me.... I'm munchin away on the dreaded yogurt covered pretzels again!!

What I Should be Doing.....ironing. Again.
What I'm Doing Instead....throwing those shirts back into the dryer and forcing those wrinkles out with the gift of heat!

What I Should Be Doing....hitting the treadmill.
What I'm Doing Instead....hitting the couch.

What I Should be Doing....reading the paper so I know what is going on in the world.
What I am Doing Instead....reading blogs! I can't stop!

What I Should be Doing....grocery shopping for dinner.
What I'm Doing Instead....thinking it would be a lot easier to order in a pizza.

Life is Short....going to stop kicking myself for what I should be doing!

27 comments:

Margo said...

AMEN. Who came up with this should business anyway? "Says who?" is what I want to say back many days. Instead of saying "I should", say, "I choose". That's what my life coach tells me. I'm working on it :)

Randi Troxell said...

love that last line and .... what you should be doing is what you ARE doing! plenty enough time to diet, cook, clean - all that later!! have a great friday!!

Loukia said...

Hello, you have stolen my identity and I'd like it back now, please! ;) Seriously, wow, like could we be twins? Because that sounds like ME! Haha! LOVED IT! (Wait - except for the baggy pants syndrome. I don't have that, unfortunantly. I have too tight on my ass syndrome right now!)

Missty said...

Oh I am so right there with you! I should be doing a TON of things, and here I sit! Ugh!! LOL

But your last line is the BEST! Your right life is short! So enjoy, right!

Happy weekend! Hope its a good one!


And funny on the mam thing. It bugs me when I get mam'ed. lol

Rachel said...

I've got a mother-in-law-coming-over-so-house-must-be-cleaned-today situation here, too. So, what am I doing? Reading blogs, of course! :)

Jazzy Cazy said...

"Ahh Coulda, Woulda, Shoulda"

"Stop should'ing all over yourself" sista!

Some great "shoulda" quotes from Sex and the City - my mantra to life!!

Can I add one?

What I Should Be Doing....working on my own business blog
What I'm Doing Instead....commenting on other people's blogs!

Have a fab Friday!

xjcx

Martha said...

Please pass the yogurt pretzels and wait for the dryer to do its' job. Happy Friday, great post.

Kelloggsville said...

Mirror on my life!

great post x

Stacie's Madness said...

I should be working. ;-)

it took me four times clicking on your blog for it to work...grrr.

Kimberly said...

I share many of those same should be's. I wish there were 35 hours in a day to get the should be's and the I am doing done all in the same day.

Have a great weekend!

Eliza said...

Mother in law clean - EEK thats scary :-)

Kristin said...

What I should be doing would fill up a banker's box, instead I'm blogging.

Busy Bee Suz said...

Too funny. It is nice to know that you are just like the rest of us!!!!
I should be doing a lot of things...but I ain't!!! (that is the southern in me)

Rebel Mother said...

Ha! Gave me a tickle! As you say life is short and it is much better to do 'Doing Instead', than 'Should be Doing'!

Enjoy!

PS Have to agree with Eliza - Mother-in-law clean????#

Carrie said...

Oh, thanks for making me feel much better about what I should be doing...! LOL! Thanks for stopping by and your sweet comments...Mam! {hee hee, I read the previous post too!}

Have a great weekend...no matter what you are doing! :)

Elizabeth said...

You know, I always disliked the word "should" - especially now that they aren't enough hours in the day to do it all!! Happy weekend!

Hit 40 said...

Go take a long bath! And play your favorite music with an icy drink....

Or gas up your tank and do not look back when the mother in law arrives!!

Mary K Brennan said...

What should I be doing? Spending time with Hubby.
What I'm doing Instead- Reading posts from those who were so gracious to leave comments ths week.
Thank You. Keep Doing What You're Doing!

Marbella Designs said...

Sounds like a day in my life, except for the mother-in-law. She's on the other side of the country, hee hee.

Veronica Lee said...

I love, love the last line!!

Just A Mom (Call me JAM for short) said...

Y O U
C R A C K
M E
U P !

MamaJoss said...

yogurt covered pretzels...now that's MY KIND OF TREAT! And isn't a dryer an iron? no? Yes. Jean...I gave up on them after baby #1 - o v e r r a t e d.

kristi said...

Just say what I say, "I don't feel like it!"

Sara @ Domestically Challenged said...

What a great post! I loved it! Did you find some cute jeans? I love jean shopping, just not on me!

ModernMom said...

Stacie-I removed my music player..I'm told this should speed up loading time! Thanks for sticking with me:)
Sara-Found some great jeans AND they were on sale! Woo

CenzLuccsMom said...

LOL!! OMG I clean on days that I know he in laws are coming too. It's good motivation for me once a week to get myself in gear, but this week they didn't come over so my house is is chaos!!! And I have only grocery shopped and cooked a handful of times since I had my twins almost 3 years ago, ahhhh!!! Thanks for the reminded that it's ok!!

Madame DeFarge said...

Sounds like my weekend too. Especially the what I should be doing. But the ironing awaits me with a stern look and an unforgiving glare.