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I'm often amazed and confused by the bizarre happenings behind the closed and competitive doors of the typical suburban home. The following is a place to share my thoughts and reflections on daily life as I try to navigate this crazy and wonderful world.






Sunday, May 10, 2009

Before I Was A Mom


I slept until noon
Read books at leisure
Went out for dinner
Attacked my career as if that was all there was
Travelled on a whim
Shopped without a care
Drove a car with only 2 seats
Met the girls regularly for dinner and wine
Had a clean house
Had clean hair....every single day
Took long drives with no destination in mind
Ate hot meals
Didn't share my snacks
Enjoyed the quiet.

Now that I am a Mom
Sleeping in is a thing of the past
I sneak into the bathroom to get that chapter finished
Dinner out is take-out or McDonalds
I gave up the career I love
Travelling requires spreadsheets and weeks of packing and organizing
I drive a vehicle with 7 seats
I meet the girls for play dates and coffee. Wine and dinner is for the big events
My house has that lived in quality
My hair is clean...most days
Drives have purpose and come with an arsenal of snacks and juice boxes
My dinners are coolish
Snacks are for four
Quiet happens after 8pm


Now that I am a Mom
I know the joy only a babies first smile can bring.
I understand the primal need to protect ones young.
I have experienced the sweet agony of nursing a sick baby through the night.
I have felt the fierce pride of a child's first words, first steps, first accomplishments.
I know what it meant to have your heart walking around outside your body.
I have silently wept for their pain.
I strive to be a better daughter.
I am more thankful for my relationship with my Husband then ever before.

Before I was a Mom, I didn't know how much work it was to be a Mother. Work of the best kind, work I love and am thankful for every day.

I wouldn't change a thing.

22 comments:

Stacy (the Random Cool Chick) said...

That gave me major goosebumps!! :)

Wishing you a very Happy Mother's Day! :)

Stacie's Madness said...

i don't remember what life was like without little ones...and that's ok.

happy mother's day to you!

Just A Mom (Call me JAM for short) said...

What a great post. All sooo true.

Happy Mother's Day!

Sweet Words said...

WOW... Do I ever remember "before I was a mom" my list was somewhat similar.. but I wouldn't trade it for anything now!!

Happy Mother's Day!

Jennifer said...

This is a BEAUTIFUL post! What a great tribute to motherhood and women being AWESOME!

*sigh* I wish at least that my dinners could be 'warm'. ;-)

Happy Mother's Day!

Anissa said...

How beautiful -- Made me a little teary. TFS

Hope You have a wonderful Mothers Day!

Maternal Tales said...

Great post (and yes it could be my list too)!! Oh how I long not to have to share my food!! x

Karen said...

Perfectly said. Happy Mother's Day!

Kelloggsville said...

beautifull sentiment, thank you x

Veronica Lee said...

Beautifully said!

Busy Bee Suz said...

So true and so sweet!!!
Happy day to you and your family!!
Suz

SuburbanCorrespondent said...

Go ahead, make me look shallow...all I wrote about was chocolate and naps...

sha said...

So beautiful. Keep the good stuff coming.

Veronica Lee said...

Grab the 'One cool blog award' for your cool blog from my blog.

CenzLuccsMom said...

Great list!! I remember sleeping and reading too, LOL!!! Of course I wouldn't trade a thing for the amazing smiles and hugs from my boys!! Thanks for stopping by my blog. I always love checking out new blogs and yours is a fun read!!!

Randi Troxell said...

wonderful... i love this post!

theneatos said...

I can relate to so many of these ... and it brings me immense pride and joy to admit that!

Cheers to all the moms!

Amy said...

Oh that was great! I love the part about "spreadsheets" and "arsenal of snacks". I get it! Thanks for visiting and leaving a comment. Now I am off to explore your blog a little.

Amy said...

Oops I was logged in as the wrong account. crazy me - I'm tired. So disregard my last one. Thanks for coming by Daily Doses of Mama Drama and leaving us a comment. I hope your Mothers Day was awesome. I really like your blog.

MamaJoss said...

GREAT post and so true :) Thanks for stopping by...love your blog here..I'll be back for more :)

Tiaras & Tantrums said...

so true - so very true!!!
Love this!

Erica said...

Thanks for stopping by (VGNO) sorry i didnt get a chance to last night but glad I am here now what a great post soooooo true. :) Look forward to following your blog. :)